People don’t associate French cooking with grilling. But if you go to any neighborhood festival in the summer, out in the countryside, there’s invariably a grill covered with sausages, including merguez, lined up and sizzling away, as well as a broche with something turning on the spit, being lapped with flames, roasting to perfection.

Another thing that people don’t know, including me, was that you can cook baby back ribs in less than 30 minutes, ending up with tender ribs using a grill pan – no fire needed! That’s an especially good thing if you’re a city dweller and don’t have access to a grill, or it’s forbidden, as it is in Paris for safety reasons, which is understandable; the city has been through a number of rebuilds and doesn’t need another one.

The word barbecue in English comes from la barbe à la queue, or, from the beard to the tail, and what you see at those countryside festivals is often a whole beast roasting away, while people hover around, drinking wine, waiting until it’s ready.

My friend Susan Loomis spent years living in the French countryside and now divides her time between Normandy, and Paris, where she teaches cooking classes, enjoying the best of both worlds.

Susan’s book latest book, French Grill: 125 Refined & Rustic Recipes, celebrates the flavors and traditions of grilling in France with everything from grilled vegetables and aïoli and chicken wings with herbs de Provence, to duck breast à l’orange, and éclade, a layer of mussels cooked under pine needles, a ritual I took part in last summer. (You can see the fiery, dramatic cooking of the mussels in action on my Instagram Stories.)

Susan’s book even has grilled sablés, Normandy shortbread cookies, which she brought over when I invited her for lunch, where she made the Côtes de porc grillé, or Grilled Baby Back Ribs, French Style (page 162.) I didn’t quite believe you could have tender ribs in about thirty minutes – and until I tasted her lovely cookies, I didn’t believe you could grill cookies! – but she told me that she came up with this recipe when guests arrived for a party at her house in the country with a few racks of ribs, and she needed to cook them quickly.

In the book, Susan mentions how grilling is often seen as “man’s work,” and men hover around, making suggestions about how she should be grilling, practically grabbing the tongs out of her hands. Not sure if mansplaining has a translation in French, but I was at the demo of a bartender and bar owner in Paris and winced a few times when she was asked if doing her job, and hiring other women to work with her, was a political statement.

Having worked with, alongside, and for women, most of my life in restaurant kitchens, I don’t spend time thinking about if women could or couldn’t cook, bake, mix, or grill something up as good as, or worse, or better, than I could. Having said that, knowing Susan for a number of years, and seeing her behind the stove, and at the grill, I let her do her thing. Because she’s definitely the boss of the grill, at least in my house.

The secret of these ribs isn’t a long list of ingredients. Smoked paprika, fresh garlic, and cumin each have dynamic flavors that come together to complement, and provide a counterpoint, to the tender, juicy pork. But we both agreed when we sat down to eat the ribs later, that the freshly toasted and ground cumin was key to the flavor. The garlic may get a little char when cooking, but as long as you turn the ribs before the garlic gets too dark, that flavor was also part of the appeal.

Susan had never cooked these in a grill pan, which worked very well. And sure enough, we were sitting down and eat ribs, and licking our fingers, not long after she started.